I have an argument or two every week with my husband, but that definitely doesn’t lessen my love for him; and I can say this on behalf of both of us. We are very strong individuals and arguments are bound to take place. I guess these small arguments; or tiffs that I like to call them makes a relationship stronger.
This is true for any relationship. Ask me… my second name can easily be a fighter cock, my mom, my sisters, my best friends and even my husband has seen that side of me and have suffered a lot. Here I can assure you my relationship with all the people mentioned above is rock solid. For Instance, I fight with my kid sister like anything, we just need a reason and we are always ready. Still I know if she wants me I would be there for her and vice versa.

What I don’t understand is why these arguments have to happen so frequently. I mean, we let go many things when strangers hurt us, so why do we have to be at logger heads most of the times with our loved ones?

All of us argue with the people we love, take out our frustrations on them, ignore the people we love and somehow end up hurting the people we love; in short we treat them as our punching bags. Do we start taking them for granted? Do we think our intensions weren’t bad and they would understand us? I don’t know the answer, and I don’t think all of us have the same opinion about this.

I end up feeling so guilty and bad after having argued with the people I love (generally without any rhyme or reason). This is one thing that I desperately want to change; I don’t want this to happen ever again. But with a deep sigh I have to admit…. That sooner it is going to happen… Once again… Help me God.

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