Keeping promises is tough, especially those self commitments at the beginning of the year. The urge to just break them in a blink is tempting. Now whats the point in being obsessed with a few promises that you regret making later! For someone who believes in the word ‘freedom’, new year resolutions are again a platform to show how self transcends self. That might sound ridiculous,but in today’s world the commitment list is too long to last for the next.

Now here is a new way to love yourself and better yourself. Don’t bind yourself to words and principles. Its ok for really obsessed people, but for those who love to munch on a bit more of life, don’t fix limits. Rules have an uncanny ability to tempt. They beg you to break them. For those like myself, ignore rules. Believe in limitlessness. Now if you hear limitlessness echoing with complete anarchy over oneself, think again. Do we really need rules? Don’t you think we have more than enough laid out us to follow every moment?

Love yourself and chide yourself but never be coldly limiting. e.g. Those who are planning to reduce weight, don’t hold yourself at gun point at the weighing scale. What’s the point in doing something that you don’t love doing? Of course there are lots of things we did die rather than do, but should we have the same mindset with ourselves? By weight loss, you are intending to transform yourself. So love the old you to love the new you and feel the change. Holding strict parameters are ok but if you don’t like it then self commitment becomes self punishment. Do we need to do that to ourselves? And once we see change, would we sincerely pursue what we hate? Many times resolutions break because of this approach. Don’t bind yourself to what you don’t like. Now that doesn’t mean that you needn’t try self reformation. Obviously, no body is perfect. So through self acceptance, we have to understand what we need. Let you be your decision maker. If you feel like the scale is tipping a little bit over, then decide on what to do. Don’t make high-fi plans,but realistic ones. Same goes with any other resolutions as well. Start small and make it big. Don’t end the beginning with a giant explosion.

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